FC Posted February 2, 2011 Report Share Posted February 2, 2011 http://www.facebook.com/#!/julia.degrace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AzRednek Posted February 2, 2011 Report Share Posted February 2, 2011 How does family members introduce him? Do they say this is my father or do they just avoid the situation? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr.Hess Posted February 2, 2011 Report Share Posted February 2, 2011 Or is he now your former mother-in-law? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psuedoperson Posted February 2, 2011 Report Share Posted February 2, 2011 Well be grateful you can say former.Now just say a prayer for him. He obviously needs it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FC Posted February 3, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 3, 2011 He's my ex-fairy god-person-in-law. I'm still trying to figure out if trans-gender means they ditched their body parts, or if they are just cross-dressing? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karlunity Posted February 3, 2011 Report Share Posted February 3, 2011 Thank God you dumped that part of the family. karl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spec4 e4 Posted February 3, 2011 Report Share Posted February 3, 2011 I came across this in my family. You really need to understand before passing an judgement. I came to understand that sometime the brain is wired wrong. Even with cons. Rob Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FC Posted February 4, 2011 Author Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 I understand- "Julia" showed up in Nebraska after a short briefing and introduced her/his self to my teenage daughters. Think that might have generated confusion in their minds? For years after divorcing his daughter I had him over at the house with her/his wife (still married) as we saw him look more and more bizarre. Did he tell us what he was doing? Heck no! We reserved judgement, but should have judged him right then and there as floating over to the fairy side. He deceived us. This process took years, but he said nothing, just started looking more and more girly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gun nutty Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 It's tough for someone to admit to friends and family that they've been "lying" to them, or at least living a lie. There's a concern of rejection and judgment. This decision was not arrived at lightly. I find the fact that his wife was actively involved in supporting him interesting; her support means that she values him as a person and a friend. She could have easily left, but she saw his struggle and understood it. If he was a good father-in-law, he'll now be a good mother-in-law too. You can't change anything, and there has to be respect on some level. And look on the bright side... You have someone new to dance with at the next family wedding. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sonic1 Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 i work with people who were born with the wrong sex parts..the wiring in the brain just dosn"t match the glands... this is a fact of life..i look at there character not the way they wear there hair... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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